Interests
I'm Looking For
- Women
- Ages 40-60
- For friendship, long term, dating, casual hookups
My Story
I'm a single professional freelancer. I'm considerate, honest and fiercely loyal; confident and strong-willed but also open-minded and very open to compromise. I'm happy and tend to be optimistic. People who know me best would describe me as a decent man with a big heart.
... I bribed them.
Chemistry and passion are important to me, but so is friendship. I won't jump into a relationship based upon hormones alone - those never last. This may sound like a sappy cliche, but I want my wife and I to be best friends and I want us to grow old together.
I'm very affectionate with the right woman. I enjoy holding hands, reaching out and touching the back of her neck or shoulder as I walk up behind her, and my favorite - having her fall asleep with her head on my chest. I suppose I could be embarrassed to mention all this in my profile, but I really don't embarrass easily. Moreover, I absolutely don't want to waste my time on cold, shallow, unhappy, or otherwise emotionally stunted women.
Ideal Match
HER: Honesty is extremely important to me. Dishonesty within a relationship completely negates emotional intimacy. Warmth, kindness, intelligence, maturity, character, loyalty and emotional stability are traits I value, as is a sense of humor.
Please no narcissists, histrionics, drug/alcohol abusers, or violent tempers. (I did mention emotional stability - yes?)
I'm not perfect and I'm not looking for perfection - but I'd rather stay single then to settle for a bad relationship or one merely adequate. I believe a great relationship, even an extraordinary relationship, is possible if you meet the right person and remain willing to compromise and work through the inevitable rough spots to make it great.
(Imagine an elderly couple in the park holding hands, but with twinkling eyes and big mischievous grins. Get the picture?)
Profile Details
- Body Type
- Fit
- Politics
- Not Political
- Religion
- Catholic
- Smoking
- Non-Smoker
- Drinking
- Socially